What’s your prom after party?

Two nights ago, I had my Senior prom. It was one of the best nights of my life. It lasted from 6-11. We danced, ate, and took pictures all night long. It was simply a great time. After prom, there’s always parties. There’s always something going on. It’s the stereotype that comes with prom night. There will be drinking, driving, and usually drunk driving. That’s why our school plans a pre-prom assembly each year to discourage drunk driving.

Let me remind you: I am eighteen. I have many friends who do drink. I have many who do not drink, and I am proud to be one of those few.  I am the type of person who can be around “social drinkers.” If someone wants to drink with friends to have a good time, and not to get away from their problems, then I will be more than happy to be their D.D. for the night.

We left prom at 11:30. My group was trying to find something to do. We ended up getting a hotel room. We went to IHOP to eat then we came back to the hotel. I was with a group of people who do usually drink. Instead, we played truth or dare, stayed up until 5 AM talking, and then we passed out. Honestly it was one of the best nights of my life. I couldn’t be more proud of my friends, because they had a great time without drinking. It was not anyone’s goal of the night. We had a great time, because we were making memories.

After Prom

It is less than two weeks until my prom. At my school, we actually go to a pre-prom assembly the day before. Speakers talk about their drunk driving experiences, and this year we have a reenactment of a car-crash. Basically anyone can go to prom, anyone can buy the tux, and anyone can enjoy a night with their friends.

 

I want all of you to be safe before, during, and after prom. When I think of prom, I think of Jacob Liscombe and Brad Boss. It was an ordinary night. They were two high school junior and seniors, but they were taken from us so unexpectedly. The alcohol and fact that they thought they were invincible cost us two incredible men. Prom always makes me think of the dangers of driving, especially while under the influence.

So when you’re making post-prom plans, make sure you have a designated driver if you do plan to drink. Don’t be driving too late at night, because accidents are more likely to happen at that time. If you see any friend who plans to drive and you saw them with a few drinks, take the keys from them.

There’s always bowling, a bonfire, or watching movies at a friend’s house. Be safe… not sorry.